Providing you with Extraordinary Divorce Mediation Services at Irvine City

Getting a divorce can be an emotionally trying time in people’s lives and divorce mediation specialists understand what you’re going through, and they can help you make the process one of collaboration instead of conflict.

What led up to the decision to dissolve the marriage may result in feelings of betrayal, resentment, or guilt. You are, of course, not alone.

America has the highest divorce rate in the world, with over half of all first marriages ending in divorce. Being in the majority, however, does not negate the effects or the scars that remain after a union has failed. 

Now, you have a choice to make: How are you going to get divorced?

A divorce can be contentious, challenging, and expensive. It can also be a time to pull together in order to come up with the best answers to decisions that will affect the family for years to come. 

For those that have experienced months or years of little communication and much turmoil, considering a divorce without lawyers mediating out the details may seem nearly impossible. 

Divorce mediators in Irvine work with people every day that envisioned the details of their divorce on the morning news, instead of in the confidential offices of a mediator. If others can achieve a respectful, agreed-upon divorce by both parties, so can you.

At Divorce Mediation of California, you’ll work with a team of mediators that may be tailored with lawyers, mental health professionals, and accountants.

While all of these professionals are well-versed in litigation and collaborative divorce cases, they’ve come together to create a better way for people to resolve disputes and get on with their lives.

For a no-obligation, complimentary consultation, contact us at Divorce Mediation of California today.

Divorce Mediation: The Better Choice

There are a number of reasons why mediation is considered the better choice when ending a marriage, and here are just a few: 

  • Confidential. A divorce taking place in the courts becomes a public record. Any grievances, reasons for divorce, or financial discrepancies are available to the public.

Mediation, on the other hand, is private and confidential. California Law decrees that all communication and settlement offers must remain private and can never be brought into court.

  • Collaborative. Instead of a judge decreeing the details of a divorce, you do. These factors may include child custody and visitation rights, debt and asset distribution, and child or spousal support. 

The couple sits down with divorce mediators in Irvine. They then make these important decisions together, guided by professionals who have spent years helping individuals find common ground. 

Very few couples want to leave the fate of their finances and family in the hands of a judge that knows little about their dynamics or special considerations.

For those who feel the relationship has decayed to the point that attempting communication and compromise is pointless, we recommend, in most circumstances, that you give mediation a try. 

Many couples are surprised at the difference experienced mediators bring to the table. Remember, it’s our job to help those that have irreconcilable differences find a way to collaborate and make decisions that are in the best interest of all family members.

The presence of a guiding, neutral third-party compels people to behave in a manner that can be almost unrecognizable by their spouse. 

On the off-chance that mediation fails, you can always turn to litigation. If you have come to terms with even a few of the details in a divorce agreement, you will reduce attorney’s fees and speed up the litigation process.

  • Child Friendly. Few parents want to see their children involved in court or in a judge’s chambers. The emotional scars can be felt long after the actual event. In mediation, children are not involved and neither you nor they have to appear in court. 

Both parents sit down together and, with the help of a mediator, determine what is best for their children. Decisions such as child support, legal and physical custody, and visitation are determined by the two people that love their children the most. 

This process establishes cohesive communication. You may not be married in the future, but you will always be parents.

Learning to address your children’s needs in a non-adversarial manner will have long-term beneficial effects as you continue to make joint decisions about your children’s welfare.

The Mediation Process: Why It Works

You may be thinking that this process sounds a little too good to be true. How do you sit down and come to agreeable terms with a person you rarely speak to—or when you do, it ends up in a fight?

When people understand what’s at stake, they typically rise to the occasion. As divorce mediation specialists, we’ve seen it countless times.

Here is what you can expect during mediation, and why it works.

The initial complimentary consultation serves to answer any questions that you may have and address any concerns. We’ll discuss the details and what to expect so that you have no surprises during your mediation.

Divorce mediation in Irvine occurs in sessions. We identify the issues that need to be discussed and everything is laid out on the table, including finances, assets, debts, and how each person would like to see the distribution.

Ultimately, the following agreements will be reached like asset and debt distribution, child support, and a parenting plan that includes custody and visitation.

As divorce mediation specialists, we facilitate communication and ensure that each person is granted uninterrupted time to share their ideas and concerns.

We may ask questions to clarify points or explain information about the legal system. We provide options and alternatives that couples in the midst of a divorce may not have considered and share common ways divorce issues are resolved. 

Above all, mediators act as a neutral third-party with no favoritism to either side. We create a safe space for honest communication. 

Once agreed upon, a marital settlement agreement is created and reviewed, by both parties and if rep, by their attorneys, then the final paperwork is signed.

We submit your judgment to act and wait for the judge to sign off on your J. Once returned, your official divorce date will be included in the documents. 

Work with the Right Divorce Mediation Team

At Divorce Mediation of California, our team of expert divorce mediators in Irvine has helped thousands of couples reach an agreement.

Once participants realize the many benefits, which include minimizing the emotional and financial costs of a divorce, they become actively engaged in reaching a solution.

To learn more about how our reliable team of legal experts can help you, contact us at Divorce Mediation of California today.